Living Mindfully: A Journey to Inner Peace and Awareness

by | Mar 24, 2024 | Life in General, Self Improvement

The present is the only moment that life is available to us.

-Thich Nhat Hanh

In our fast-paced world, achieving inner peace can appear daunting. Yet, the key to serenity might just be in the art of pausing and embracing the present moment. 

Mindfulness, with its straightforward yet deep approach, offers a path to this calm. Join me as we delve into how incorporating mindfulness into daily life can unlock the door to lasting peace.

Defining Mindfulness

Mindfulness transcends its trendy status to embody a profound approach to living.
It entails honing our attention on the present, while calmly and peacefully recognizing and embracing our emotions, thoughts, and physical experiences without criticism or self-judgment.

This practice helps us to disengage the auto-pilot mode of our minds, inviting active participation in our current experiences.
Essentially, mindfulness is the art of being acutely aware of the now, attentively observing our inner and outer worlds without the distraction of past or future concerns.
Like a muscle requiring regular exercise to strengthen, mindfulness demands consistent practice and intentional effort, aptly referred to as a “practice” for its ongoing, evolving nature.

Are Mindfulness and Meditation the Same?

Yes and no. 

Meditation involves intentionally pausing to sit, stand, or lie in stillness, concentrating the mind for a certain time, typically with a specific goal in mind, or ‘intention’. It serves as a structured method to hone focus and can vary in length and form, emphasizing the importance of daily and consistent engagement. 

Mindfulness, on the other hand, is broader. It’s about being aware and present in the moment, whether you’re moving or still. You can practice mindfulness through activities like yoga, martial arts, painting, gardening, cleaning, walking, running, or hiking. It’s not limited to a quiet room or a meditation cushion; you can bring mindfulness into everyday actions, making it a versatile and accessible practice. 

A plethora of research supports the diverse health advantages of these two disciplined practices, underscoring their value for overall wellness.

The Role of Mindfulness in Self-Awareness

Mindfulness serves as a mirror, reflecting our inner world without distortion. By practicing mindfulness, we enhance our self-awareness, learning to observe our thoughts and emotions without judgment. This clarity allows us to understand ourselves better, fostering emotional intelligence and resilience.

Mindfulness: Transforming the Brain for Longevity

Studies have indicated that practicing mindfulness meditation can significantly change both the activity and physical structure of the brain. Engaging in mindfulness regularly enhances brain regions linked to learning, memory, managing emotions, empathy, compassion, seeing different perspectives, and handling stress.

My Personal Experience

Nearly eight years ago, I encountered mindfulness through Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and it transformed my life. I have since become passionate about DBT and actively participate in group settings to help master such skills as these.

We can do small mindful skills throughout our day a few minutes at a time. A mantra in mindfulness is “Short time, Many Times”.
While it requires practice and some days are more challenging, it offers a sanctuary of quiet, suspending the world’s noise momentarily. These precious minutes of solitude foster tranquility within me, which then cascades to others, enhancing my re-engagement with daily life as a more centered, focused, and aware individual.

Here are some of my favorite simple everyday practices.

Practical Ways to Practice Mindfulness

Practice Non-Judgement

Non-judgment, a key aspect of mindfulness, has significantly shifted my perspective. While I’m not perfect, this skill has allowed me to view my thoughts and feelings without criticism, leading to a more compassionate and understanding approach to life. I notice the less I judge myself, the less I judge others. And the less I judge others, the more inner peace I feel letting go of what I cannot control. 

What is judgmental?

Being judgmental refers to forming opinions or conclusions about people or situations quickly and often harshly, usually without fully understanding the circumstances or considering different perspectives. 

It involves evaluating others critically, often based on preconceived notions, biases, or limited information, leading to a tendency to see things in terms of right or wrong, good or bad, without acknowledging the complexity or nuance of the situation.

Some examples include:

Categorizing People Instantly: Many individuals subconsciously label others as soon as they meet them, thinking things like “She’s lazy” or “He’s incompetent,” based on very little information or snapshots of others’ lives. 

Making Assumptions About Intentions: People often assume others’ intentions without evidence, thinking thoughts like “He did that just to annoy me” or “She’s ignoring me on purpose.”

Overgeneralizing from Single Events: After a negative experience, it’s common to think, “Things like this always happen to me” or “I never get it right.”

Focusing on Negatives and Dismissing Positives: A tendency exists to dwell on the negative aspects of a situation while overlooking any positives, thinking, “This is bad” or “Nothing good ever happens.”

Should Statements: Many harbor beliefs about how things “should” be, leading to thoughts like “He should know better” or “I shouldn’t have to deal with this.”

Criticism Based on Perceived Flaws: People often judge harshly, thinking “I’m not good enough” or “I’m a failure,” or “That person should not be wearing that,” focusing on perceived inadequacies or mistakes.


One Thing at a Time

Single-tasking involves dedicating our full attention to one task at a time, setting aside the fragmented focus of multitasking. This means no phones, devices, or other distractions, allowing for a concentrated immersion in the present moment. During this time, concerns about work, relationships, or other obligations are momentarily put on hold, enabling us to engage deeply and wholly with the task at hand.

Take eating, for example. Imagine sitting at a table with a plate of food in front of you. Instead of eating absentmindedly, you turn off your phone and eliminate distractions. You focus on the meal: the colors and textures of the food, the aroma wafting up. As you take a bite, you savor the flavors, noticing the sweetness of a carrot or the tang of a lemon, and feeling the texture of the food against your tongue. You chew slowly, registering each taste note and sensation, creating a moment of pure culinary connection.


Mindful Observations

Mindful observation involves fully engaging with our surroundings using our senses. 

Imagine walking through a garden, noting the green hues of leaves, the intricate veins of tree bark, the vibrant colors of the flowers, noticing the pale blue sky. You see the gentle rustle of plants in the breeze. You take a deep breath and smell the earthy scent of soil mixed with the fragrance of blossoms. The air is cool on your skin, and you hear the chirps and squeaks of birds. Each step you take is deliberate, feeling the ground beneath your feet, observing the world in its tiniest of details, and experiencing the present moment in its fullness.

Being Present: Mind, Body, and Soul

Being present in the moment with mindfulness involves a harmonious connection between our mind, body, and soul, fostering a balanced state of being that transcends mere mental awareness. This holistic approach encourages us to fully inhabit our experiences, engaging all aspects of our being.

Mindful Presence with the Mind

Being present mentally means actively engaging with our thoughts and emotions as they arise, observing them without judgment. This practice allows us to notice the patterns of our thoughts, discerning between fleeting distractions and deeper reflections. In these moments, we might observe the ebb and flow of our mental landscape, like watching clouds drift across the sky, acknowledging their presence but not holding onto them. This detachment helps us cultivate a peaceful mind, reducing stress and enhancing clarity.


A mindfulness practice for dealing with ruminating thoughts or strong emotions is this. I’ve learned to mindfully manage these by envisioning placing the thoughts in a box, labeling it, and tucking it away in a closet for later. Another way is to picture placing them on a leaf or a moving stream, or a conveyor belt and hanging them on a clothesline. This technique helps to pause these thoughts, allowing me to concentrate on the present moment.

Mindful Presence with the Body

Mindfulness in the body is a practice of deepening our awareness of physical sensations, from the feel of fabric against our skin to the subtle pressure of a fingernail against the upper lip. By attentively observing these sensations, we learn to stay present and connected to our immediate experiences. This heightened awareness extends to our emotions and triggers, enabling us to recognize them as they occur, rather than retrospectively. 


Engaging in practices like a body scan, where we attentively explore each part of our body, helps us detect subtle shifts in our emotional state and identify potential triggers. This immediate awareness can be a powerful tool in managing our reactions and responses, allowing us to address emotions and triggers mindfully and proactively, rather than being caught off guard by them.

Mindful Presence with the Soul

On a soulful level, mindfulness connects us with a deeper sense of purpose and belonging in the universe. It allows us to tap into our inner wisdom and intuition, guiding us towards actions and thoughts that resonate with our core values and authentic selves. This spiritual aspect of mindfulness often manifests in moments of profound peace and interconnectedness with all life, fostering a sense of unity and compassion that transcends our individual experiences.


Gratitude Practice: Keeping a gratitude journal or regularly taking time to contemplate and appreciate the blessings in life, fostering a sense of abundance and connection to something greater.


Mindful breathing can be practiced through a technique like box breathing, which is simple and effective. Here’s how to do it:

Inhale: Slowly breathe in through your nose for a count of four, filling your lungs with air.

Hold: Keep the air in your lungs, holding your breath for another count of four.

Exhale: Gently exhale through your mouth for four counts, releasing all the air.

Pause: Wait for four counts before taking your next breath.

Repeat this cycle several times. This method helps you focus on your breath, anchoring you in the present and connecting you with the immediate experience of life.


Mindfulness apps like Simple Habit, Headspace, Oak, and Smiling Mind have become popular tools for integrating mindfulness into daily life, offering guided practices, meditations, and exercises. 

Among these, my favorites are the Calm App for iPhone and iWatch. What I love about the iWatch, is its guided breathing feature. This function facilitates mindful breathing, guiding users through deep, measured breaths to foster relaxation and present-moment awareness. This digital convenience allows users to carry the essence of mindfulness with them, making it accessible anytime, anywhere.


Mindfulness is not just a practice but a way of living that brings us closer to our core selves and fosters inner peace. By integrating mindfulness into our daily activities, we can transform ordinary moments into extraordinary opportunities for growth and serenity. I encourage you to start small, perhaps with a mindful moment during a routine task, and witness the profound impact it can have on your life.

In integrating mindfulness into our daily lives, we learn to live more fully in each moment, embracing the totality of our experiences. This holistic presence nurtures our well-being, cultivates resilience, and promotes a deep, enduring sense of inner peace that enriches every aspect of our existence.

Mindfulness reduces suffering, increases happiness, and increases control of the mind so we can experience life as it is instead of how it “should be”.



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